As I stood in a concert a few months ago for Muse, I heard God say, "that the main battle right now is the battle for the mind." Especially for young people our age. All I see is young men and women drinking, smoking, doing drugs, or having sex to block out the anxiety, depression, and suicidal notions they have.
I have realized in my own life how much the battle of the mind can change a person or destroy a person. I think in my own way I have run from it or kept busy so I don't have to feel it. But Jesus wants me to rest and the second I rest, the second I realize whats really going on.
In the last couple of weeks I experience, anxiety like I haven't for years. Even moments of panic where I thought the world would end or I would die. I have decided to keep holding on because I know Jesus has major plans for me, but man its tears me apart. If its not I have no vision, its that I feel I'm stuck in three time zones; past, present, and future. They all follow me and yank at me and give me no peace. I want to stay only in the moment to get done the things God asks, but how can you when you can't find the moment he is in.
Its interesting, because inside of all this anxiety I remembered what I fought as a kid. How much I dwelt in this day in and day out. Yes, I had great periods of time, but I always felt I was staving off an attack. I see now all the lies Satan spoke to me in that time and convinced me that I would be stuck in my situation, place, all of that, for life!
Thank Jesus he is breaking me free of this. Its taking time and energy, but I know it will happen. He promised. "Not by power, not by might, but by my spirit," says the Lord. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
Friday, December 3, 2010
Monday, October 4, 2010
My Relationship Vortex- Beam me up Scottie
The relationship vortex is where I am living these days. The funny thing is I am not in a relationship with the opposite sex. Every other time I have visited this at times consuming place I have been in a relationship. Maybe you know this place and have been sucked in? You know its where you are completely consumed by the opposite sex wondering why, how, what, who and when. Generally this is all pertaining to a particular individual. But this time I am alone. ALONE. I look around and there is no companion. No rainbows and butterflies. No skipping to the eternal love soundtrack. There is a part of me that wants to yell "beam me up Scottie" I am done living here. But unfortunately for me I get to examine this vortex instead. God wants me to stay here so this vortex feels more like a sad saga most days. (hear violins playing sullen music).
Let me explain. I am trying to uncover the good, bad and ugly of my relationships. Each of us construct what a relationship with the opposite sex looks like from a young age. It usually looks like something between a cross of a disney princess fairy tale and our parents marriage at about ten. But then life happens and well, we don't stay in that place. Relationships around us fall apart. We experience dating on our own. Some of our expectations change. We change. This is my problem. I experienced dating on my own and it looked more like a fun mirror chamber where I look at the relationship and it is fat on the top skinny on the bottom but then the next mirror is the opposite. Yikes.
There is a part of me that is grieving that I have to walk into essentially premarital sessions alone with nothing but me and my bible. Why did I have to experience the distortion I did? What weird person does premarital stuff alone? (Okay so Jesus is there). But it is not something I anticipated doing. Sometimes I am a cry baby. That part of me is screaming "BEAM ME UP!!!" Part of me is ecstatic because I have like hourly ah ha moments and it can be overwhelming. So I am curious. God is not letting me sit stagnant with this one.
God, does NOT want me to stay there. He says "Erin, let me show you what relationship really looks like." In order to get there though I have to go through the field and pull out the weeds. I look around and say "AHHHHHHH I have so many weeds in this place!" My reaction is "God you are the God of the universe, you could just drop me in a new garden where there aren't so many weeds." Ha! That isn't going to happen. So the last couple weeks He has been the master gardener. I think it started with the phone number change and really being able to recognize the problem of holding on to the shards of that past relationship. I straddled the fence for a while thinking that I could white knuckle it and create change. Ha! That is a funny thought. Anything I am in control of without God never ever goes well. Then He brought in some people that would challenge my perceptions. It begins with you girls, Mel is using my old phone as a paper weight so I can't give in to temptation, and getting to share my heart and get to know you. Which transitions to my mentors/counselors and then ends with a boy.
Yes, I said it. With a BOY. This boy is an interesting boy. (well, he is a man-you know what I mean). (I know what you are thinking-- Do you like him???? With a squeal. Umm... Not sure yet to answer your question. One thing I have learned with my past is rushing and letting feelings dictate is never wise. Attraction is there, yes. Potential, possibly. But God is ultimately the one that gets to turn the light green on both sides. Right now it is yellow ladies. (So no freak outs okay?) Like be friends, get to know each other but DO not jump in without looking first. We both have to heal from some big stuff first.) Back to my point- this boy is interesting because he challenges all prior understanding of men. Especially christian men. Is he perfect? Far from it. Does he try to appear to be? Nope. Is he growing? Yes. Can he talk about his feelings towards things that have happened in his life? Yup. Is he willing to admit when he doesn't know something? Uh huh. Does he love God? Oh yes. But what intrigues me the most is the way he encourages me. He is not encouraging me in a worldly way, but instead in a Godly way. Sometimes I know that the words or scripture he gives me is God breathed. He reminds me of my intrinsic value. Odd, usually with a man I am experiencing the opposite. Believe me I have been waving my white flag yelling "God don't let a boy challenge my heart." Beam me up Scottie.
So not only is God working on me, He is rooting out some of my big issues. I am letting a guy into my life but in a different way. As a friend first. As a person who gets to see the not so great parts of me but has to win my trust like everyone else. Will he disappoint me someday. Yes, he is human. Not superman. Could he walk away? Yes, he could. But that right there is an indication of my growth. I used to worship men and look to them to solve all my problems. Those days are over. I am not looking back to the place of worshiping them. And I also could cling to him to solve all my problems and tell him all the reasons why he needs me or should stay. This time I say: NO WAY. But I also don't treat him with contempt for his past mistakes and issues. That isn't fair. Ladies, we need to be able to realize that the men in our lives struggle just like we do. They have pasts, fears, insecurities, lies and ego's to fight. Good gracious. Can we be gentle and loving as Christ calls us and care for our brothers in Christ without condemning for the mistakes of others? Believe me, this has been a hard one. But God is working on me. He is not going to let me escape this one.
So life in the vortex looks something like Matthew 13:24-30 24Jesus told them another parable: "The kingdom of heaven is like a man who sowed good seed in his field. 25But while everyone was sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and went away. 26When the wheat sprouted and formed heads, then the weeds also appeared.
Let me explain. I am trying to uncover the good, bad and ugly of my relationships. Each of us construct what a relationship with the opposite sex looks like from a young age. It usually looks like something between a cross of a disney princess fairy tale and our parents marriage at about ten. But then life happens and well, we don't stay in that place. Relationships around us fall apart. We experience dating on our own. Some of our expectations change. We change. This is my problem. I experienced dating on my own and it looked more like a fun mirror chamber where I look at the relationship and it is fat on the top skinny on the bottom but then the next mirror is the opposite. Yikes.
There is a part of me that is grieving that I have to walk into essentially premarital sessions alone with nothing but me and my bible. Why did I have to experience the distortion I did? What weird person does premarital stuff alone? (Okay so Jesus is there). But it is not something I anticipated doing. Sometimes I am a cry baby. That part of me is screaming "BEAM ME UP!!!" Part of me is ecstatic because I have like hourly ah ha moments and it can be overwhelming. So I am curious. God is not letting me sit stagnant with this one.
God, does NOT want me to stay there. He says "Erin, let me show you what relationship really looks like." In order to get there though I have to go through the field and pull out the weeds. I look around and say "AHHHHHHH I have so many weeds in this place!" My reaction is "God you are the God of the universe, you could just drop me in a new garden where there aren't so many weeds." Ha! That isn't going to happen. So the last couple weeks He has been the master gardener. I think it started with the phone number change and really being able to recognize the problem of holding on to the shards of that past relationship. I straddled the fence for a while thinking that I could white knuckle it and create change. Ha! That is a funny thought. Anything I am in control of without God never ever goes well. Then He brought in some people that would challenge my perceptions. It begins with you girls, Mel is using my old phone as a paper weight so I can't give in to temptation, and getting to share my heart and get to know you. Which transitions to my mentors/counselors and then ends with a boy.
Yes, I said it. With a BOY. This boy is an interesting boy. (well, he is a man-you know what I mean). (I know what you are thinking-- Do you like him???? With a squeal. Umm... Not sure yet to answer your question. One thing I have learned with my past is rushing and letting feelings dictate is never wise. Attraction is there, yes. Potential, possibly. But God is ultimately the one that gets to turn the light green on both sides. Right now it is yellow ladies. (So no freak outs okay?) Like be friends, get to know each other but DO not jump in without looking first. We both have to heal from some big stuff first.) Back to my point- this boy is interesting because he challenges all prior understanding of men. Especially christian men. Is he perfect? Far from it. Does he try to appear to be? Nope. Is he growing? Yes. Can he talk about his feelings towards things that have happened in his life? Yup. Is he willing to admit when he doesn't know something? Uh huh. Does he love God? Oh yes. But what intrigues me the most is the way he encourages me. He is not encouraging me in a worldly way, but instead in a Godly way. Sometimes I know that the words or scripture he gives me is God breathed. He reminds me of my intrinsic value. Odd, usually with a man I am experiencing the opposite. Believe me I have been waving my white flag yelling "God don't let a boy challenge my heart." Beam me up Scottie.
So not only is God working on me, He is rooting out some of my big issues. I am letting a guy into my life but in a different way. As a friend first. As a person who gets to see the not so great parts of me but has to win my trust like everyone else. Will he disappoint me someday. Yes, he is human. Not superman. Could he walk away? Yes, he could. But that right there is an indication of my growth. I used to worship men and look to them to solve all my problems. Those days are over. I am not looking back to the place of worshiping them. And I also could cling to him to solve all my problems and tell him all the reasons why he needs me or should stay. This time I say: NO WAY. But I also don't treat him with contempt for his past mistakes and issues. That isn't fair. Ladies, we need to be able to realize that the men in our lives struggle just like we do. They have pasts, fears, insecurities, lies and ego's to fight. Good gracious. Can we be gentle and loving as Christ calls us and care for our brothers in Christ without condemning for the mistakes of others? Believe me, this has been a hard one. But God is working on me. He is not going to let me escape this one.
So life in the vortex looks something like Matthew 13:24-30 24Jesus told them another parable: "The kingdom of heaven is like a man who sowed good seed in his field. 25But while everyone was sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and went away. 26When the wheat sprouted and formed heads, then the weeds also appeared.
27"The owner's servants came to him and said, 'Sir, didn't you sow good seed in your field? Where then did the weeds come from?'
28" 'An enemy did this,' he replied.
"The servants asked him, 'Do you want us to go and pull them up?'
"The servants asked him, 'Do you want us to go and pull them up?'
29" 'No,' he answered, 'because while you are pulling the weeds, you may root up the wheat with them. 30Let both grow together until the harvest. At that time I will tell the harvesters: First collect the weeds and tie them in bundles to be burned; then gather the wheat and bring it into my barn.' "
Walk with me for a second. Yes this is about when Christ returns. But for me it has a little different meaning at this point of my life. A great friend of mine texted me and told me that this is where they feel I am at. Remember the weeds? Well this is why it speaks to my heart. The enemy came into my heart and planted weeds to infest the pieces of my heart and distort my perceptions of relationship. God is bringing in the harvest now. Sorting out the weeds from the wheat and getting ready to burn the lies I carry about past relationships to the ground. Sweet huh??? Yes, this is where my heart is. It is being sorted right now. Harvested.
The best part is I get to do it with amazing women like you :) So for now I will resist the urge to say "Beam me up." Cause who knows, maybe one day it will help you!
Sunday, October 3, 2010
First Steps
This week has been up and down. A dream that God has placed on my heart is becoming more of a reality. At first I was so excited but still had no idea of what might happen and when. After the reality of my dream becoming a possibilty sooner than later began to sink in, I began doubting. How will God provide? What will my family think? When? Am I even qualified? The questions just kept coming. I feel like this was Satan just trying to squash my hopes. So, I took the first step... I asked for an e-mail address. As simple as that may sound, it was the next thing I had to do. I had to step out in faith that God is at work, and I have to be obedient. I would appreciate your prayers as I am figuring out what God is up to. :) Love you girls!
Joy
Driving home on a busy street I came to a stop light. windows down, music blaring, sun on my face I looked forward lost in thought. As I socked in the beauty of the day I head from the car next to me the most joyful little voice.
"HI!" The little voice shouted from the window of the blue SUV now parked next me hand waving back and forth as fast as he could.
"Hi" I said back with a huge smile, and excited voice, (not nearly as excited as his) and a wave.
"SHE WAVED!!!" The little boy shouted to his mother in the front seat of the car as they pulled forward.
I instantly remembered playing "sweet and sour" the game where when you waved at someone they were either sweet and waved back or sour and didn't. Waving back I placed my heart in a place of sweetness. Embracing the joy and beauty of the day and excepting the gift of joy from a perfect stranger. I'd given him a gift with a smile. Taking notice of the world that surrounds me and allowing the little gifts of tiny angels bless me helps me to stay out of hiding. The hard part isn't over but it feels like a time to go for a walk, swing on the swings at the park, stop and smell the roses, and be open to the life that surrounds me. The life I was hiding from when I embraced the death and decay of my place of hiding. I Embrace life and shared a smile with a stranger :)
"HI!" The little voice shouted from the window of the blue SUV now parked next me hand waving back and forth as fast as he could.
"Hi" I said back with a huge smile, and excited voice, (not nearly as excited as his) and a wave.
"SHE WAVED!!!" The little boy shouted to his mother in the front seat of the car as they pulled forward.
I instantly remembered playing "sweet and sour" the game where when you waved at someone they were either sweet and waved back or sour and didn't. Waving back I placed my heart in a place of sweetness. Embracing the joy and beauty of the day and excepting the gift of joy from a perfect stranger. I'd given him a gift with a smile. Taking notice of the world that surrounds me and allowing the little gifts of tiny angels bless me helps me to stay out of hiding. The hard part isn't over but it feels like a time to go for a walk, swing on the swings at the park, stop and smell the roses, and be open to the life that surrounds me. The life I was hiding from when I embraced the death and decay of my place of hiding. I Embrace life and shared a smile with a stranger :)
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Hiding
when I was finally old enough to be part of the middle school group at my church i was so excited for lock ins. we would all get together and not sleep from 8 to 8 and we would have fun, play games and eat food. The church was huge and full of amazing hiding places... for hide and go seek of course. I've always been so small i fit in the smallest little places and i remember my first lock in experience i hid behind a plant in the sanctuary lining the steps of the stage. I was so excited i knew it was perfect and no one would find me here. Funny thing about playing at 5 am is your so tired and sitting so still for so long i fell asleep. I woke up to the now dark sanctuary and stood up... how long had i been asleep? why didn't anyone wake me up? i wondered back into the community room where all my friends were eating pizza and drinking loads of caffeine filled Mountain Dew. When the door opened every one passed to look and see what was going on... the youth leader said, "Oh yeah we never found Melanie." not only had i not been found in my perfect hiding spot, I'd been forgotten. In a lot of ways that little girl never came out of hiding. I learned how to wall myself in and hide away from the world. You stop realizing you're alone and every second you know you're alone. I learned to trust no one and once someone got too close to finding me I would retreat, run away or push away. soon the walls were so high and my expectation was for people to climb them only for the sick joke that i could push them off when they got to the top. God said, "no more." He invaded my space first but seeing i needed some help allowing others in He took it upon himself and sent someone in. He and i both hide behind the same wall. thinking there was no one there, no one who could understand what i was going through, i turned around and found a boy sitting in my living room. He could see me. he could read my life aloud to me like i was an open book. he pointed at every scar he could see half healed still bleeding. Feeling the most vulnerable and out of control i could ever feel i couldn't respond. the first place i retreated was inside my head. If you know anything about giving your mind to god it's that he wont let you stay there and he wouldn't let me retreat. He loves me too much to watch me sit alone in a bunker hiding away the gifts he gave me the light he shines in me. so out i come. its been a slow process... I've never gotten this far before. I refuse to believe that i am still hiding. I refuse to make a choice to walk back in that bunker and turn my back on what god has planed for me. I don't know how to let you in. So lets start here. I'm broken and i have a lot of scars on my heart but in time I'll tell you about them. I have been robbed. I've believed lies. I've held on to those lies. No more. I don't know how to let you in... but I'm not going to let Satan have anymore ground. By not letting you in I've believed a lie that i can handle this on my own. I've believed a lie that i don't need other people to help me. The truth is i need you. I need you to help me fight, to help me stand.
i have a vision on us and right now I'm on the ground sword fallen, armor tattered side bleeding into the dirt. Erin, Gwenna, Jessica and Lexi you stand in front of me swords drawn... Erin you are in the center and you look like you are stern and the fire in your eyes would terrify anything you looked at and you are looking at him backed by some of the strongest girls I've ever met. Elissa you are on the ground with me but you aren't hurt you are holding your hand over mine as i grip my side and you have my head in your lap.
You girls are my warriers and my God given comforts. you bare your swords of truth and your presence in my life has already helped me grow so much. I don't embrace the hiding anymore. I'm scared out of my mind at whats coming but i can do all things through Christ who strengthens me and i know that he is doing such a work in me. I had a boy show up in my living room. he showed me how i was hiding without even knowing what he was doing. From there i had to make a choice stay here and live in this mess or get out and receive what God has for me. I choose to get out. I choose to embrace life i choose to embrace hope i choose to embrace love i choose to embrace friendship i choose to embrace relationships i choose to embrace grace and mercy, and i choose to embrace God's plan for me. It's hard to shine for Christ when no one can see your light. It wont happen over night and I'll be making a choice not to retreat every day. Right now that's so hard but i know it will get easier the more i make that choice. I'm afraid people will leave and walk away but that's OK... you can walk away... I'm not alone... and I'm not hiding anymore.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Love from the group to Joanie (we miss you)
HIII!!! (This is to Joanie!!! From the group)
Hey Joanie!
I can't tell you how excited I am for you and all of the adventures you are experiencing now - and will experience throughout the semester!! What do you think of South Africa? What is surprising you? What are you learning? I want to know all about it! :) What do you think of the study so far? We miss you and your joy and all that you bring to the group! Sorry I haven't been better about posting to the blog...
I love you!
Jessica
Joni!!! I miss you so much here! You have so much good feedback and love woman. I wish you were here with us, but I'm totally glad you get this experience in South Africa! I pray that you have the best experience, learn more about God's love, and just get to let loose and enjoy life! Can't wait to see you again.
Gwenna
Joanie! I've been thinking about you SO much! I miss your smile and your precious joyful laughter. Hopefully, you're having a great time and are experiencing God in unique and amazing ways! I can't wait to hear the stories you'll bring back! What has impacted you the most about the study so far? Joanie, know that you have sisters back here that are praying for you and love you no matter what. Like I said, you've been on my mind a lot lately. Love you so much girlie! Be blessed and sit quietly in the comfort of unconditional love by Emmanuel and your sisters.
Miss you.
Lexi
Hey Joanie!
I can't tell you how excited I am for you and all of the adventures you are experiencing now - and will experience throughout the semester!! What do you think of South Africa? What is surprising you? What are you learning? I want to know all about it! :) What do you think of the study so far? We miss you and your joy and all that you bring to the group! Sorry I haven't been better about posting to the blog...
I love you!
Jessica
Joni!!! I miss you so much here! You have so much good feedback and love woman. I wish you were here with us, but I'm totally glad you get this experience in South Africa! I pray that you have the best experience, learn more about God's love, and just get to let loose and enjoy life! Can't wait to see you again.
Gwenna
Joanie! I've been thinking about you SO much! I miss your smile and your precious joyful laughter. Hopefully, you're having a great time and are experiencing God in unique and amazing ways! I can't wait to hear the stories you'll bring back! What has impacted you the most about the study so far? Joanie, know that you have sisters back here that are praying for you and love you no matter what. Like I said, you've been on my mind a lot lately. Love you so much girlie! Be blessed and sit quietly in the comfort of unconditional love by Emmanuel and your sisters.
Miss you.
Lexi
Sunday, September 26, 2010
My Funk- It's the enemies Junk
Let me tell you girls how my week has been. Sigh... maybe you are in it too. Part of me thinks that the enemy just comes in and tries to steal things in the midst of this study because he knows that God is going to root up and ruin some of his schemes. I am in a funk. Yes, a funk. Ask me to define it and I can't really completely put it into words. All I know is it is the enemies junk to get me away from God and His plan for my life. To challenge me to eat from my own tree that I made and battle good and evil. Uh not good.
It goes a little something like this. I am discovering some of my faults. You know it reminds me of pouring peroxide on an open wound. It feels like a burning sensation in my heart. It is a love/hate relationship as I open up and am honest with myself as to what is going on. Girls, I am realizing more and more about how much I elevate other people, particularly men and then proceed to look to them for my identity. It is a problem. Maybe you relate. How can we really find ourselves in the male "counterpart" of ourselves? We can't. They are imperfect and struggling just as much as we are only in different ways. I take some comfort in the reality that I am not the only fallen creature. But then God proceeds to call me out on the reality that I idolize men or tear them apart. Yes ladies, I am a pendulum. Swinging back and forth between two unhealthy extremes. I am unable to really land in the middle. I try to blame my problem on my past and lack of experience with men that have a more realistic sense of reality, but the blame really falls on me. Yes, I have no experience with healthy relationships, but can I sit here and assume/sulk that they will all be the same? Can I really wall myself off into believing that I can truly worship from afar or loathe the male species because of the battle with sex addictions that so many of them fight? Can I honestly blame them all for the hand full that hurt me? No. I have decided the answer is no. God wants me to come back to reality and accept his hurting sons. He wants me to acknowledge the true enemy and hurt for his boys. Should I go out and trust them all? No. Should I bear my heart at first meet and greet? Absolutely not. But I really need to be open to friendship.
On the flip side, when I find an attractive and relatively safe man I cannot go and put the man before Him. God showed me that He is a jealous jealous God. He is not about to let a man, made of flesh and bones, be my idol. I said it. IDOL. Do you idolize something that God is trying to destroy because He is jealous of the time and attention you give it? God really nailed me on this one this past week. When I am in a funk I think, "if only I had a boy" then it would all be better. WRONG!!! In reality a boy makes it worse. No amount of attention or anything else will satisfy this girl. I am a needy little thing and God is the only one who can meet that need. I learned that the hard hard way. And am still learning.
So this week I was in a funk. A funk that came out with a need for relationship and community. I had the opportunity to share with a friend that hard place I was in and ask for prayer from others. Did I advertise it? No, and you may be upset if you weren't notified. I felt lead to handle it differently this time. God told me, do NOT rally the troops because you and I, sweet beloved Erin, have to work it out alone first before you process it with someone else. Gotta respect that one lovelies. Oh, I recommend listening to what God asks you to do when dealing with an issue. Our support system and prayer team is a MUST. But if God wants to keep you in a place of coming face to face with Him, do it.
Aside from that I am excited to see each of you on Tuesday. It has become my favorite day. You each are so special to me. If you missed last week or are abroad here are the answers the the fill-ins for last weeks study :) Post any thoughts that you have on here. I am waiting for someone to be brave. I am not the only one that can run my mouth, or uhhh keys. You know what I mean. Let this place be a place of self expression. :)
Session One: Listening Guide
Bricks are used to make a name for ourselves.
Bricks are man-made, but stones are God-made.
When you and I choose to label ourselves, we limit ourselves.
We were never designed to be brick-makers; we were designed to be living stones.
God desires that our lives be made up of spiritual sacrifice that is acceptable to Him.
God labels us as "living stones" with the words "I AM".
God says that we are His workmanship His valued daughters.
Hope that you girls are getting through the homework!!! Much love to you :)
It goes a little something like this. I am discovering some of my faults. You know it reminds me of pouring peroxide on an open wound. It feels like a burning sensation in my heart. It is a love/hate relationship as I open up and am honest with myself as to what is going on. Girls, I am realizing more and more about how much I elevate other people, particularly men and then proceed to look to them for my identity. It is a problem. Maybe you relate. How can we really find ourselves in the male "counterpart" of ourselves? We can't. They are imperfect and struggling just as much as we are only in different ways. I take some comfort in the reality that I am not the only fallen creature. But then God proceeds to call me out on the reality that I idolize men or tear them apart. Yes ladies, I am a pendulum. Swinging back and forth between two unhealthy extremes. I am unable to really land in the middle. I try to blame my problem on my past and lack of experience with men that have a more realistic sense of reality, but the blame really falls on me. Yes, I have no experience with healthy relationships, but can I sit here and assume/sulk that they will all be the same? Can I really wall myself off into believing that I can truly worship from afar or loathe the male species because of the battle with sex addictions that so many of them fight? Can I honestly blame them all for the hand full that hurt me? No. I have decided the answer is no. God wants me to come back to reality and accept his hurting sons. He wants me to acknowledge the true enemy and hurt for his boys. Should I go out and trust them all? No. Should I bear my heart at first meet and greet? Absolutely not. But I really need to be open to friendship.
On the flip side, when I find an attractive and relatively safe man I cannot go and put the man before Him. God showed me that He is a jealous jealous God. He is not about to let a man, made of flesh and bones, be my idol. I said it. IDOL. Do you idolize something that God is trying to destroy because He is jealous of the time and attention you give it? God really nailed me on this one this past week. When I am in a funk I think, "if only I had a boy" then it would all be better. WRONG!!! In reality a boy makes it worse. No amount of attention or anything else will satisfy this girl. I am a needy little thing and God is the only one who can meet that need. I learned that the hard hard way. And am still learning.
So this week I was in a funk. A funk that came out with a need for relationship and community. I had the opportunity to share with a friend that hard place I was in and ask for prayer from others. Did I advertise it? No, and you may be upset if you weren't notified. I felt lead to handle it differently this time. God told me, do NOT rally the troops because you and I, sweet beloved Erin, have to work it out alone first before you process it with someone else. Gotta respect that one lovelies. Oh, I recommend listening to what God asks you to do when dealing with an issue. Our support system and prayer team is a MUST. But if God wants to keep you in a place of coming face to face with Him, do it.
Aside from that I am excited to see each of you on Tuesday. It has become my favorite day. You each are so special to me. If you missed last week or are abroad here are the answers the the fill-ins for last weeks study :) Post any thoughts that you have on here. I am waiting for someone to be brave. I am not the only one that can run my mouth, or uhhh keys. You know what I mean. Let this place be a place of self expression. :)
Session One: Listening Guide
Bricks are used to make a name for ourselves.
Bricks are man-made, but stones are God-made.
When you and I choose to label ourselves, we limit ourselves.
We were never designed to be brick-makers; we were designed to be living stones.
God desires that our lives be made up of spiritual sacrifice that is acceptable to Him.
God labels us as "living stones" with the words "I AM".
God says that we are His workmanship His valued daughters.
Hope that you girls are getting through the homework!!! Much love to you :)
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